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modeling tools

  • Jun 10, 2023
  • 3 min read


Greetings, beautiful soul!


As we embark on the incredible journey of nurturing and guiding our children, we have the opportunity to be their greatest teachers. Today, I invite you to explore the profound impact of modeling the transformative tools of invitation, noticing, and inquiry. By embodying these tools ourselves, we create a sacred space for our children to tune in, listen to, and act upon their inner guidance. Together, let us weave a tapestry of empowerment, love, and self-discovery as we journey alongside our little ones.


1. The Power of Modeling:


Our children are like sponges, absorbing everything they see and experience. They observe our words, actions, and behaviors, and learn from the examples we set. By modeling the tools of invitation, noticing, and inquiry in our own lives, we offer our children a powerful blueprint for self-exploration and growth. As they witness us embracing these tools, they will naturally be drawn to explore and integrate them into their own lives.


2. Inviting Open Dialogue:


Through the art of invitation, we create a safe and nurturing space for our children to express themselves openly and authentically. When we extend an invitation for dialogue, we let them know that their thoughts, feelings, and opinions are valued and respected. By actively listening without judgment, we encourage them to trust their inner voice and share their insights and experiences. Through this process, we teach them the importance of open communication and the significance of creating space for self-expression.


3. Cultivating Mindful Noticing:


Noticing is a gift we can bestow upon our children—a gift of presence and deep observation. As we practice mindful noticing in our own lives, we demonstrate the art of being fully present and attuned to the world around us. By encouraging our children to notice their own thoughts, emotions, and the subtle nuances of their environment, we cultivate a sense of self-awareness. This gentle awareness enables them to recognize their inner guidance and make choices aligned with their authentic selves.


4. The Magic of Inquiry:


Inquiry is a gateway to self-discovery and critical thinking. As we model the power of asking open-ended questions and engaging in meaningful conversations, we empower our children to explore their beliefs, values, and perspectives. Through inquiry, we encourage them to dig deeper, challenge assumptions, and seek understanding. By nurturing their curiosity, we foster a lifelong love of learning and self-reflection, enabling them to navigate life with wisdom and discernment.


5. Empowering Inner Guidance:


By embodying these tools, we create an environment where our children can tune in to their inner guidance system. As they witness us honoring our own intuition and inner wisdom, they learn to trust their own inner voice. This trust becomes a guiding light, helping them navigate life's twists and turns with confidence and authenticity. They develop the ability to listen to their inner guidance, make choices aligned with their values, and embrace their unique path.




Dear parents and guardians, let us recognize the immense power we hold in shaping the lives of our children. By modeling the tools of invitation, noticing, and inquiry, we empower them to tune in, listen to, and act upon their inner guidance. Together, we can create a generation of compassionate, self-aware individuals who make conscious choices, honor their authenticity, and positively impact the world around them. As we embark on this journey of growth and self-discovery alongside our children, let love, patience, and understanding be our guiding principles. May we inspire them to embrace their inner wisdom, and may their journey be filled with joy, purpose, and endless possibilities.


With Love, Maria


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